Dating sociopath stares at other women
I haven’t shared this with anyone because I am embarrassed about my insecurity. You are not crazy and you are not uniquely insecure.
All women find it uncomfortable and disrespectful to see their husband admiring or staring at a beautiful woman, especially after she has told him that it bothers her when he does it. Probably most women notice beautiful women and men also. However, men who respect and value their relationship with their wives, do not keep looking, they purposefully turn away, even if they do notice. I’m curious about what you said in your first paragraph.
He would stop doing his behavior instead of telling you that you had serious mental issues and it’s all in your head.
Our POD will be delivered on Saturday and then the fun/work begins. Inside we let things accumulate – old hurts, resentments, anger that has never been resolved, lies that we haven’t identified or challenged, habits that block our future growth, and character traits that are unbecoming to the person we want to be.
Moving gives you a reason to throw out a whole lot of unnecessary stuff, but I suspect that we will discover a lot more stuff that still needs to be tossed, gifted, or sold once we try to get settled in our new home. We’re caught in today’s busyness and seldom take time to stop and reflect, to sort and sift through what is no longer useful so we can let it go.
Until you are willing to see what you are doing and stop, I choose not to go out with you socially anymore.” I know that will put a real crimp on your marriage the way it is and that is a huge risk.
But the alternative is to just “endure” and that may not be a wise option either.