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Being involved in the community also has the benefit of allowing you to vet a potential Domme.
If she is involved in your local BDSM community, others will be able to give you a good idea if she is experienced and if she is a safe player.
If you decide you would like to send a personal message to a Domme on Fetlife, don’t do it right away.
Dominant women get up to a hundred form messages a week on Fetlife from submissives (usually men) asking them to be their Domme.
There are basically two places to look: online and in real life.
Many vanilla dating sites have a way to filter for kinky people.
There are still some things you need to know before approaching her.You may get lucky and find an experienced Domme online, but you have a greater chance of success meeting one in person.Going out to BDSM munches and local events and getting involved with your local community is the best way to look for a potential Domme.Before sending a potential Domme anything, read her profile.Find out what she is looking for and don’t bug her if her profile says she is not looking.