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After never finding it appealing back home, I was convinced by a friend that it would be a good way to make make friends here, as au-pairs are predominantly female. I downloaded the app shortly after arriving in Paris, France.Some dates seemed like they would love to see me again, and then I never heard from them.Others were rather quiet and aloof and then would make their move with an unmistakable gesture—either going in for the kiss at the end of the night or asking for a second date right away. It’s entirely based on physical attractiveness, and it’s shallow and ridiculous yet incredibly entertaining. You choose attractive photos of yourself, write a short biography, and then begin swiping: right on people you want to match with, left on those you don’t.
And after they’ve been said once, expect to hear them several times a day.By the time a British man would have taken you out for dinner, you could have been on a minibreak with your French boyfriend, and met his mother.That muddy period when you’re not sure how serious he is will be rapidly cleared up after you’ve been dating a French man for a week, by which time he’ll have begun referring to you as his girlfriend.Given the French woman’s flair for cookery, the males perhaps feel there is no need to bother learning, as this role will soon be taken over by the new woman in their lives. They particularly like to instruct whoever is listening on areas in which they believe they can exercise expertise: food, wine or indeed anything about France.So cooking something more advanced than spaghetti with ketchup and mayonnaise may be a little beyond them. They’re also genuinely surprised if you don’t know specific details about France, such as when Fillon was elected, or Delanoë’s favorite color.